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A Couple of Friends : The Remarkable Friendship Between Straight Women and Gay Men

fag hag by robert rodiFag Hag (Plume Fiction) by Robert Rodi 

fag hag by robert rodi

An instant phenomenon in hardcover, this "side-splitting commentary on the bond between gay man and straight women" (Genre) tells about an overweight secretary whose pursuit of Peter, a gay artist, is finally thwarted by Lloyd, a gay survivalist. Humiliated by defeat, Natalie launches into a campaign of revenge with a series of outlandishly escalating plots.

Natalie, an overweight, fun-loving secretary, is head over heels in love with a gay artist named Peter and will do anything to thwart his relationships with other men, until Peter meets Lloyd Hood, a gay survivalist and gun-shop owner. 

Secretly in love with an unattainable gay artist named Peter, Natalie Stathis subtly poisons all Peter's romances with men until Lloyd Hood, a gay survivalist gun shop owner, enters Peter's life.

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Boston Gay & Bisexual Married Men's Support Group

A discussion group for gay and/or bisexual married men, including many who are working to preserve the marriage and some in the process of separation or divorce

 

Fag Hag Webring

Are you a fag hag? Well, chances are that if you don't know what that means, you probably aren't. I'm a fag hag, and here's how I know: If a movie has a gay guy in it, I have to see it. I have all of Armistead Maupin's books. If it's revealed that a celebrity is gay, I find that his esteem rises in my eyes. My best friend is gay. If I had the money, I'd be a drag queen for Halloween every year.

 

Gay Men in Support of Women
Essay by Michael Graydon

Excerpt:

As a sexual safety educator for gay and bisexual men, I have found that, for many bisexual men, the concepts of gay and straight are fluid; they tend to identify themselves simply as men who like sex with other men. This knowledge indicated that it was essential to develop alliances and partnerships with women and AIDS projects. We needed to learn from each other about these populations women, and men who have sex with men and women and come to understand how they interact and affect each other.

 

Gay Straight Alliance

School of Education, University of Colorado at Boulder

The mission of the School of Education Gay Straight Alliance is to provide support and resources to students, faculty, staff, and the community regarding gay/lesbian/bisexual/transgendered issues through advocacy, networking, and education.

 

When You Meet Gay and Lesbian People: Hints for the Heterosexual

Excerpt:

Do not run screaming from the room. This is rude.
If you must back away, do so slowly and with discretion.
Do not assume they are attracted to you.
Do not assume they are not attracted to you.

 

Straight Spouse Network

SSN is an international support network of heterosexual spouses and partners, current or former, of gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender mates. Members provide confidential personal support and resource information to spouses and partners nationwide and abroad. SSN is the only support network of its kind in the world.

  

When A Friend Comes Out To You

Excerpt:

We live in a society that often discriminates against people who are different. We all have been taught to believe that to be "straight" is to be normal. This can cause a great deal of pain for gay men, lesbians, and bisexual people.

"Coming out" or disclosing their orientation to others is an important step in lesbigay people's self-acceptance. Like everyone, lesbigay people accept themselves better if they are accepted by others.

Someone who is coming out feels close enough to you and trusts you sufficiently to be honest and risk losing you as a friend. It is difficult to know what to say and do to be a supportive friend to someone who has come out to you. Here are some suggestions you may wish to follow...

 

Why Would Lesbian & Gay Organizations Include Bisexuals?

Essay by Alan Hamilton & Bobbi Keppel

Although this article isn't strictly about straight woman/gay man relationships, it has relevance to the topic.

Excerpt:

Oppression is the systematic, societally-condoned mistreatment of people, simply because they are believed to belong to a particular group. This mistreatment includes both direct mistreatment of individuals and the propagation of misinformation about the group and its members. The direct mistreatment of individuals ranges from name calling and threats of violence through hanging or beating people to death. An example of misinformation is "Faggots are out to molest our children and convert them to their abominable lifestyle."

  

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